The Secret to Really Great Sex

The Sad Truth About Sex Today

Here are some very sad and sobering truths about modern sexuality:

* 30% of ALL women have never had an orgasm in their life.
* 70% of women have NEVER had an orgasm during intercourse.
* Over half of all women have FAKED an orgasm.

Stop and take a moment to think about what this means.

If you are a man reading this, it means 50% of the women you have had sex with faked an orgasm. And if the other half were able to orgasm with you, it probably happened because they used their hands or a vibrator.

If you are a woman reading this it means there is a 1-in-3 chance you have never had an orgasm. And if you have been fortunate enough to experience an orgasm, it most likely wasn’t from having sex with your man.

This is a sad reality about modern sexuality because ALL healthy women can have orgasms during sex!

Modern medicine wants to put the blame on women for these problems, and the bozos in the ‘male enhancement’ industry want you to think your ‘size’ is the problem. They are both feeding you a load of crap to make money.

All Of Us Are Sexual Creatures

All of us are born sexual creatures. (I realize this may come as a shock to many guys, to learn women are sexual too). Fact is, if we weren’t sexual we would die off.

But no one is born knowing how to have Great Sex any more than you are born knowing how to walk. The good news is learning to have good sex is like learning how to walk, once you’ve got it, you won’t have to think about it. You’ll just do it.

Listen, any guy can figure out how to stick ‘it’ in and pump-n-dump. In fact this is what most guys do. It’s also why 70% of women never orgasm during sex. Face it… if you want your woman to orgasm, you must understand what she needs. This is what I’m here for, to help you figure it out.

The Secret To Really Great Sex

You probably won’t believe this once you see it, but it is the true secret to great sex with your woman. Do this, and she will do anything to make you happy, because no other man will have ever done this for her.

This is the secret to being a truly Masterful Lover. EVERYTHING I teach is based on this one secret.

Are you ready? Good, here it is…

Stop thinking about ‘getting’ sex from women. Instead focus on giving your woman Incredible Pleasure by giving her Really Good Sex.

In short… FOCUS ON THE WOMAN’S PLEASURE instead of your own. She will be so thrilled she will want you to feel just as much pleasure as you have given her.

Now, you might just have had to stop and let the power of this wash over you. Excellent! You have just taken a major step towards being the kind of lover women dream about.

When you love nothing more than to give a woman the most powerful long-lasting orgasm of her life… This will make you stand out like a great Dane in a room full of chihuahuas

( If you are thinking ‘bull crap’, there isn’t much I can do to help you. You should probably click away now to one of the 3,150,000 websites on sexual positions or one of the 2,070,000 websites on male-enhancement.)

Everything You Need To Satisfy A Woman Is Already Within Her

There are so many men who only focus on their own needs when it comes to sex. You only have ask a woman or poke around online to know this is true.

Thing is, it’s amazingly easy to stand out from these lame lovers by doing just this one simple thing… Focus On Her Pleasure.

If you have this as your mind-set, you’ll easily figure out how to do this because you are now paying attention to everything she wants you to know about her body and what she likes. Everything you need to satisfy her is already inside her, and she WANTS you to discover it.

But you must Pay Attention!

This is the essence of what it means to be a Masterful Lover.

Essential Oils and Love, Sex and Soul

Many essential oils used in aromatherapy are believed to encourage loving feelings and to exert an aphrodisiac action. For instance, jasmine oil has long been used in love sachets and incenses not only to enhance romantic love but spiritual love as well. The Sufis revere jasmine as a symbol of both romantic and spiritual love. Kama, the Hindu god of love, tipped his arrows with jasmine flowers so they would have the power to infuse the heart with desire.

Rose oil is another example in this reference. Since ancient times, rose oil has been consistently classified as an oil of love, femininity and emotional feeling. Roman brides and bridegrooms were crowned with roses, as were the images of Venus and Cupid, and rose petals were scattered on the marriage bed. When Cleopatra invited Mark Antony to her palace, she had the floor covered with roses because of her fervent belief in the romantic power of the rose’s scent. And among some American Indian tribes, braves gathered wild roses for the hair of their brides.

A wealth of other examples can be provided. For instance, some of the “magical” purposes for which vetivert oil has traditionally been used include love spells and overcoming an aversion to the opposite sex. Ylang ylang is considered to be an aphrodisiac specific for impotence and frigidity. The name ylang ylang is translated by some as “flower of flowers.” Ylang ylang is also called perfume tree. In Indonesia, its flower petals are often strewn across the marriage bed as a symbol of love.

Neroli oil, distilled from the flowers of the bitter orange tree, is associated with romance and sensuality. A bride and groom of Crete are sprinkled with orange blossom water; in other countries, young brides traditionally wear a wreath woven from orange blossoms. In days past, orange blossoms were fastened to the horns of oxen pulling the cart of Sardinian honeymooners. After reading the above anecdotes, one might come to the conclusion that there’s a great deal of congruence among these essential oils regarding the sphere of romantic love. However, they present only a top-layer perspective of the oils.

Soul-Nature and Spiritual PhytoEssencing

Plants are alive, and everything that lives has a soul. An essential oil is the carrier of its plant’s soul; in order to fully individualize the use of an essential oil so it can act deeply, even constitutionally, one must first identify its unique soul-nature. Then, the oil needs to be matched with the soul-nature of the individual for whom it is intended. Spiritual PhytoEssencing is a synthesis of certain aspects of aromatherapy, herbal medicine and folk medicine, Kabbalah, Chinese medicine, classical homeopathy, modern physiology, depth psychology, gemstone healing, color therapy and anthroposophical science. The soul-nature of an essential oil, rather than its chemical action, is emphasized.

Though not accessible to our ordinary intellectual consciousness, this soul-nature is the key determinant of the character of the oil. Every living cell must be animated by a vital force, or “ensouled,” and it is this incarnation of higher forces into living tissue that lends each organism its tangible expression. Kabbalists refer to this as the “descent of soul into matter.”

Founder of anthroposophical medicine Rudolf Steiner notes: “Matter is most spiritual in the perfume of the plant…When the spirit most closely approaches the physical earth, then we have the perception of fragrance.” The Kabbalah teaches that while the taste of a fruit such as an orange nourishes a human being on a conscious level, the scent of its oil provides sustenance for one’s spiritual dimension. According to the Kabbalah, the human soul contains plant, animal and human soul components. Thus, each of us has the ability to relate to plant souls on a soul-to-soul level. Hence, an essential oil, the bonding medium for the soul of the plant, is uniquely suited to act as the physical entity that can facilitate an interface between plant and human souls.

The plant soul is not encumbered by ego, so it has the qualities of purity and infinity. Thus, the individualized plant soul combination within a customized essential oil blend, when proffered to a specific human soul, is eagerly received and infuses the latter with an impetus to move beyond limitation by changing its orientation from the finite to the Infinite. The key to moving the soul in this way is the formulation of an oil blend which accurately reflects an individual’s true essence. Just as no two snowflakes are alike, each soul is completely unique.

While essential oils of jasmine and rose appear similar at first glance-both are known for their enhancement of romantic love and lovemaking-they are really very different. The following discussion of these oils from a soul-nature perspective, as elaborated by the Spiritual PhytoEssencing synthesis, highlights their differences.

Jasmine Oil Type

One of the keynote symptoms of the jasmine oil individual is fear of losing self-control. The jasmine oil type strives with might and main to retain control over an existence whose fabric is fragile and easily rent. She is a coequal mixture of passionate, noble sentiments and emotional hypersensitivity and vulnerability. Her weaknesses are resistant to eradication because she is consumed with the need to hide them, and thereby avoid insult and humiliation. Also, the jasmine individual is very much a prisoner of parental suppressive influences which dominated her early years. Although within herself she can sense the nobility of her individuated soul-nature, these remain haphazard glimpses that cannot be woven into a consistent pattern because she subconsciously continues to enforce the restrictions placed upon her at an earlier time by others. Hence, the jasmine oil type is an unstable mixture of feelings of nobility and low self-esteem, unsatisfied urges and impulsive actions.

In the realm of sexuality, she will either demonstrate extreme control manifesting as prudishness, lack of spontaneity or even frigidity, or else a lack of control manifesting as obsessive sexual fantasies, excessive masturbation and/or promiscuity. Here, we see not only the issue of control but also the theme of an inability to develop individuality, for the jasmine oil type is inherently romantic and passionate. Thus, in the case of the sexually repressed jasmine individual, there is no outlet for her unique admixture of romanticism and sexuality. Regarding the lascivious jasmine individual, the dominance of the more animalistic aspect of sexuality precludes the expression of a truly romantic nature.

Rose Oil Type

A keynote of the rose oil individual is the feeling of there is always hope. In fact, the central theme of rose is: If I find true love, everything will be okay. The Beatle’s tune “All You Need Is Love” is a perfect theme song for this type. Despite a record of love-interest disappointments and sorrow, an ember of hope continues to glow within the rose individual. She thinks: If only he will change this about himself, we can have the loving, intimate relationship I yearn for.

Also, this person is prone to fantasies about finding “Mr. Right.” She holds out hope that any trip she takes, any party she attends, any new job she takes, etc. offers the possibility of meeting her soul-mate. She may even believe that someday her one true love, perhaps her high school sweetheart that she broke up with decades ago, will reappear in her life and they will begin anew where they left off. In other words, the secret love she has revisited in her mind countless times magically returns to rescue her from the humdrum of an ordinary relationship. The rose oil type has a strong desire to travel which stems from fantasies about passionate romance in exotic locales rather than from a pronounced interest in other cultures. The rose oil picture also features the symptom: impulse to run. In some cases, the rose individual will impulsively leave a romantically unsatisfying relationship that’s safe and secure for a romantically charged one, even if it proves volatile and risky.

Sexual Love and Soul

Romantic love is a part of the flame of higher love which is always aglow in the human heart. Couples will, from time to time, encounter challenges that threaten their love. But rather than destroying a relationship, such challenges should refine it until it ascends to the very essence of Divine Love. In this reference, the great Kabbalist Abraham Isaac Kook writes: “Who can restrain the light of higher love that stirs in the heart…It beats like a gentle wind filled with delightful fragrance, at the same time roaring like the waves of the sea.” Kook’s comparison of higher love to a “delightful fragrance” is very telling regarding this discussion of Spiritual PhytoEssencing. True love between two people not only enhances the connection to their higher selves, but also serves as the foundation for a meaningful life and the realization of one’s full potential.

Sexual attraction in humans is so strong that it’s one of the few influences to offset the natural tendency of the human ego toward self-centeredness. Sexual love can help to overcome the power of egotism and inspire spiritual transformation, or individual “rebirth.” When sexual activity is merely a mechanism of delusional feelings or of submissive supplication, the soul cannot gainfully contribute to cultural or spiritual life. Hence, for an essential oil to be able to encourage true healing in the realm of love and intimacy, one must first assess its relevance for a particular individual by examining its innermost domain.

Copyright 2006 by Joseph Ben Hil-Meyer Research, Inc.

10 Ways to Naturally Increase Your Sex Power

Sex is an integral part of our life. It is one of the most precious gifts given by nature to mankind. Sex is one of the most basic things that is required by our body. The feeling of fulfilling sex can not be compared to anything. It gives immense pleasure, builds a strong bond between couples, reduces anxiety, tension, depression and anger.To enjoy sex life to its fullest and be able to enjoy sex life till old age we can follow these simple steps:

1- Diet: Diet rich in protein is a very rich fuel for sexual energy. Zinc and vitamin B-Complex is also very important for sex. Avoid excessive salt intake and diet rich in saturated fats.

2- Exercise: It is a very common conception that heavy body builders have more sexual power than those who are lean and thin. This a completely wrong conception.. A man with lean and thin physique may be very active sexually than a man with muscular and showman body. Even moderate and light exercise can help to increase the sex power greatly. On the contrary a wrongly done heavy exercise done without any supervision can badly affect a man’s sex life. Se the next time you hit the gym… be sure not to overdo… In fact a 30 minute jogging or running and simple push ups can do wonders for your sex power if done correctly.

3- Lifestyle: Avoid sedentary lifestyle. Try to be as physically active as possible. A lazy lifestyle can lead to numerous medical problems like diabetes and obesity which are known to be killing your sex life.

4- Keep away from anxiety, tension and excessive workload.

5- Live life with energy and enthusiasm. Follow your dreams, indulge in your hobbies as often as you can and enjoy the things you like in your life. Happy people are said to enjoy sex more than those who are tensed.

6- Take a glass full of milk daily, preferably with 2-4 pcs of dates.

7- Grind equal quantity of almonds, apricot and cashew with dates and take it with a spoonful of honey in the morning. It is very good for increasing sex power.

8- Milk of camel is considered as a wonderful medicine to increase sex power.

9- Take 5 grams of pure mucuna pruriens powder with a glass of milk daily to increase sex power and enjoy having sex till old age.

10- Aloe Vera juice is also very effective in increasing the sex power.

By following these simple steps you can easily and greatly increase the sexual stamina and endurance. But in more severe cases or when these simple measures don’t work, it is highly recommended to consult a sexologist.